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Re: The Next Level

Ms. Pillowz — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 11:20:29 -0000

*big smile*

Re: The Next Level

Dujo31 — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 11:14:52 -0000

Awwww thanx Babes. Makes me feel like I made the right decision. LOL. I know I did :)

Re: The Next Level

Ms. Pillowz — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 11:00:55 -0000

lol Thank you!!! SOOO glad that I'm not alone! I am waiting with baited breath for some news from you too!! *Looking at my watch* lol

Re: The Next Level

Ms. Pillowz — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 10:58:11 -0000

You are an absolute sweetheart!! Thank you so much! Your post really means a lot to me, truly. Thank you for your support of the blog too and you're right, I do need to write more. ;-)

Re: The Next Level

freeyourheart — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 10:40:31 -0000

ma'am, when i found out you were engaged, i literally teared up. & reading this post, it made me even happier for the both of you. you made yourself whole & put yourself first, then found an amazing guy. that's so good to hear.

on another note, i hope your post more. i miss reading new stuff on here. :)

Re: The Next Level

Arelis Cintron — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 15:55:03 -0000

Congratulations! Congratulations! Congratulations! As I read this today I thought to myself, yes I am not the only person with these thoughts going through their head. Granted I'm still in the "Serious Boyfriend" stage, but I can totally relate. In past relationships I was always annoyed/missing something and it was a quick "onto the next" mentality that made me halt the production of "Dating Sucks". I to, took a time out and got to know me, inside and out. What made me happy? What made me tick? Why did I do certain things that made me the insane person I was becoming....thinking that things were different, but ending up with the same result. Then BAM, you find the one that changes everything, and you find yourself happy to bend but not sure you why you can't jump completely in. Isn't that half of the joy of life; To grow as a person, feeling your soul stretch and wrap itself around an ever morphing you? Buy the coffee maker but hold onto the sage curtains...no offense against underwater goldfish curtains but I feel you on your hesitation with that one! May your journey to marriagedom be a ride to remember! I look forward to hearing more of your journey!

Re: For You, My Dear Bella

Casing Joy — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 17:35:22 -0000

Awe!!! This is so touching. Made me cry. I only met Bella a couple of times but she was memorable! I know she is happy that you are a mommy to a homeless kitty. The great thing is you have all of the memories of Bella and are making new ones with Chessie!

Re: For You, My Dear Bella

Ms. Pillowz — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 11:44:35 -0000

I thought I told you that I don't want comments that make me cry! lol Your words have been so true. I think about her daily. She is definitely always with me. Thank you so much for reading, commenting, and posting.

Re: For You, My Dear Bella

Arelis Cintron — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 11:31:52 -0000

This is such a beautiful post! The song played as I read and I could feel the love that you and Bella shared. Her memories will be with you always and no one can take that away from you. When we experience loss, it takes some time to be able to get back to our happy place and move on. Opening our hearts to others is always a scary thing. Once we push past our fears though, we realize that we've made the right choice. Loved ones are never forgotten, Bella is with you always. My favorite part that you shared is, "Call me weird, but I felt a familiar energy surrounding me. I can’t describe it, but I knew that it was her. She was shining brilliantly, her soul high above, happy and wrapped in infinite love." I can feel the warmth, literally. Thanks for sharing! @djrelat7

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Chasing Joy — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 15:01:47 -0000

Looking forward to more posts.

You inspired me to write and start Chasing Joy. I received my first blog award and I am happy to now have the opportunity to give you a blog award. I really enjoy your blog and have awarded you the Versatile Blogger Award. Please stop by and pick up your award button. I hope you’ll also grab my button and Chase Joy with me. http://www.chasing-joy.com

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Ms. Pillowz — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 09:01:58 -0000

Thank you! It's good to be back!

You're right! I find that I do have a lot to write about and I need to make
time to do so. Thanks again for your advice! :-)

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Chasing Joy — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 02:05:31 -0000

arelis I also lookforward to your comeback :-)

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Chasing Joy — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 02:04:52 -0000

Welcome Back.

Once you get used to your new routine with travel and new boyfriend you will have so much inspiration. Bigdivas need someone to maintain our Headquarters :-)

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Ms. Pillowz — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 10:46:54 -0000

Aww! Thank you! This makes me feel really good about being back. I
thought no one had missed me. lol You're so right and I look forward to
your return as well!

Re: Where’ve you been, Girl??

Arelis Cintron — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 10:22:11 -0000

I am SUPER GLAD that you are BACK YAY! Life happens, but writing, you can always pick back up like catching up with an old friend from elementary school. It misses you but still loves you!

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

Ms. Pillowz — Tue, 03 May 2011 11:53:50 -0000

Thanks for checking in. I've been on sabbatical since this post. I shall
return though. :-)

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

Arlett from Chasing Joy — Mon, 02 May 2011 22:06:08 -0000

Hi was just checking in to see what was going on over hear at the Diva Headquarters. I hope all is well. :-)

Re: The Master Cleanser

saltwatercleanse — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 03:23:10 -0000

Yep! I was agreed, I'll keep in touch to your blog. This blog is so usefully, Thanks for the posted ;)

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

Ms. Pillowz — Sun, 24 Oct 2010 09:19:03 -0000

Thank you so much! I've been reading your blog and I am proud of you too!
You really are blossoming in full bloom. :-)

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

freeyourheart — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 09:04:21 -0000

So proud of you ma'am!

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

Ms. Pillowz — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 10:26:59 -0000

I did and it is working out great! So glad that you will give it a try!
Please keep me posted on how it works out for you. :-) And thanks to your
blog, I found Teresa Lee and started out on this journey.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing! :-)

Re: 10 Pounds and Inches Later…

MsJayye — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 09:54:24 -0000

So you tried tapping huh? I came across Teresa Lee some time ago but never gave EFT a chance. Thanks to your blog, I'm going to revisit it.

Re: I Am Prepared?

Ms. Pillowz — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 10:22:43 -0000

Thank you so much for your comment! It is so inspiring and definitely had some great points. I especially liked this line, "but i always say, regardless of the things that we don't care for about ourselves the first step is to show ourselves love...to note the problem/issues but not get stuck in them..." I struggle with this often. I get so engrossed in these things that I sometimes can't see past them. I get stuck on it and I am sure that I'm not alone, but like you also said, I am trying some new things like EFT to help me deal better with the issues and treat myself better with more love and kindness. Thank you again for your moving comments. :-)

Re: I Am Prepared?

Curvatude — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 10:20:15 -0000

i have been a pack rat forever! my mom was and i just took on the same characteristic.

as i have gotten older i have more and more worked to take control of it...although it doesnt stop me from doing things, it does get in the way...literally...

but i have worked really hard since i have been on my own at 18 to make my life my own...to not allow the things that are counter to living the life i want dominate and rule..

as a result i have assigned this clutter to a place...like its not the defining point...its one point..

but as i said...now at 41 i am way over it...so more and more...i have to remove it...i have to make space...

but i always say, regardless of the things that we don't care for about ourselves the first step is to show ourselves love...to note the problem/issues but not get stuck in them...

to take one step at a time....i now take 15 minute increments to just get rid of stuff via the trash or a freecycle post or bagging up to drop in the donation boxes..

but as far as releasing emotional clutter goes, i can only add that for me...EFT has helped. meditation has helped. being selfish and putting myself first has helped. not feeling a need to be conventional has helped.

so i would suggest...that you try a variety of things...which as i am writing this post, i already know that you have begun to do so...but make sure whatever you do, you do it with love...

Re: Negative Thoughts Are Keeping You From Succeeding

Ms. Pillowz — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 10:59:59 -0000

Thank you my darling! Cheers indeed! That drink sounds delicious... Glad you are on board for trying something new. Be sure to check back here for the next post about EFT. I've been doing it for over a month now and I've lost 10 pounds. Here's to clearing out the junk and making space for new thoughts! :-)